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Is College Worth It? BennettI was excited to read Is College Worth It?: A Former United States Secretary of Education and a Liberal Arts Graduate Expose the Broken Promise of Higher Education, thanks to the BookSneeze program.

In the circles I run in, thinking about college for one’s child can become pretty stressful pretty quickly. What do you mean, your child is a sophomore and you haven’t yet made half a dozen college visits? Maybe your child could qualify for a $50,000/year school! A prestigious school! Then again, maybe your child won’t get into as “good” a school as mine!

It goes on and on. Thankfully, this book was a welcome hop off the crazy train. Because, what if you did pay $50,000 per year for your child to attend a prestigious school. She gets a history degree. Four years later, she’s serving grande lattes at Starbucks and has a lot of knowledge, very little income, very few prospects for jobs in her field, and over $100,000 in debt. That’s a whole lotta lattes.

Or suppose your child heads off to school with a good head on his shoulders. At least, you think he does. But after he hits the college campus, things don’t go so well. He gets in with the wrong crowd and spends more time partying than he does studying. His firm convictions are contradicted and ridiculed by his college professors, who are far-left liberal almost entirely. You turn around, and there’s your talented kid, hanging out at an Occupy Wall Street rally and shouting obscenities at anyone who might listen.

Yeesh. Bill Bennett discusses these and other relevant issues in this book. I really enjoyed it — it’s like discussing college today with a smart friend. Some things I found interesting –

  • Many kids go to college just because it’s “the next thing” expected of them. Majorities of high school seniors do go to college, even though many of them really don’t want to go (at least, they don’t want to go and study). Our own President has even said that every American should get some higher education. Every American? Really? Because there are lots of house builders, electricians, and landscapers out there who have no business in college. I couldn’t do their jobs if I tried. But I really don’t care if they went to college. Bennett goes into how our society looks down on those without college degrees, and this is probably true. It’s a shame though, because by pushing everyone into college, the colleges are forced to lower their standards.
  • Colleges are lowering their standards. Colleges must make money. With the advent of the internet, students can rate their professors. Students are more likely to highly rate “easy” profs who give little homework. Tougher profs usually earn lower ratings from students. Fewer kids sign up for their classes, and soon they have to decide — do they decrease the rigor of their courses, or run the risk of losing their jobs altogether?
  • Many colleges today spend vast sums on things that have nothing to do with education. They feature million dollar gyms and more — all to try to attract the more well-heeled students and their parents.
  • Colleges also often feel that a higher price makes them appear more “prestigious.” Yet Bennett has charts of various schools — their 4 year cost, and the 30- year “return on investment” of attending them. Many have a negative return: the student would have been better off investing college money and going straight to work out of high school than paying to attend those colleges, because it will take so long to pay back the cost. What madness!
  • The stereotype is accurate: college professors are liberal by wide margins, and that means that many of their students come out of school with liberal ideologies as well. Additionally, while many lower-level college profs and assistants are low-paid, colleges also have their share of “prima donnas” who teach only a class or two, offer little to no office hours, and spend most of their days shuttered away in their offices enjoying luxurious perks.

Recommended.

If you have a graduate or graduation Open Houses to go to this spring, check out my All-Things-Graduation board on Pinterest. I just started it for a contest I’m entering. Followers are quite welcome!

 

Just before Menu Plan Monday gets started, I have been meaning to share this yummy recipes for several weeks now:

peanut butter brownie bitesPeanut Butter Brownie Bites

1 box of your favorite brownie mix

1/2 cup peanut butter chips

1/2 cup semi-sweet chocolate chips

1/2 cup peanut butter

Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Spray 40 mini-muffin cups.

Prepare boxed brownie mix as directed. Spoon batter evenly into mini muffin cups ( 1/2 to 1 heaping teaspoon). Bake for 13-15 minutes or until top is set and a toothpick inserted into center comes out slightly wet. After brownies are out of the oven, wait for centers to fall. This will happen upon cooling. If not then tap the centers with the back of a teaspoon to make a hole for the peanut butter.

Place peanut butter in a small microwave-safe bowl. Microwave on high for 35 seconds then stir. While brownies are still warm spoon about half a teaspoon of peanut butter into the center of each brownie. Top with semi-sweet chocolate chips and peanut butter chips. Cool completely in pan. Go around edge of brownies with a sharp knife and they should pop right out.

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Mine never quite “fell” in the center, and I’m missing the peanut butter chips as well, but they were still warm and totally delicious.

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So, here are the menus for the week ahead:

Monday: Chicken and Summer Vegetable Tostadas — new recipe to me

Tuesday: Vegetable Lentil Soup

Wednesday: Poppyseed chicken – a favorite, especially with the kids

Thursday: Spicy Potato Casserole — – from an Amish Cook column in our newspaper, for daughter #1′s 16th birthday!

1.5 lb browned ground beef

1 pkg taco seasoning

1 small onion, diced

8 medium potatoes, boiled and shredded (or use a bag of hashbrowns)

4 T butter, melted

2 cups shredded cheese

1 t. salt

1 pint sour cream

1 can cream of mushroom soup

1 soup can milk

2.5 cups crushed corn chips

Combine ground beef, taco seasoning and onion.  Put mixture in bottom of 9 x 13 dish.  Mix potatoes with butter, cheese, salt, sour cream and soup.  Mix with milk.  Spoon over hamburger mixture.  Top with remaining chips.  Bake 45 minutes at 350.

Rhubarb Crisps for dessert — we have rhubarb in the garden now. Last week I made rhubarb dream bars — totally delish just out of the oven with ice cream!

Friday: spaghetti — for daughter #2′s 14th birthday. Simple tastes = nice! Probably a giant cookie or brownies for dessert.

More menu inspiration at OrgJunkie‘s.

Childhood Memories Friday
Some of my best childhood memories involve vacations. And our vacations involved motels.

Not hotels. Motels.

And I’m wondering, when did motels turn into hotels? Because nowadays, I never hear anybody talk about a motel. As a child, I never really remember hearing about a hotel. So is this something that changed in the language, or was motel a quaint remnant of my particular childhood?

Bardstown KY motel 1974So, here are my sister and me outside one of these motels, on a vacation to Bardstown, Kentucky, in 1974, when I was nine.

Motels seemed pretty interchangeable, but still, I remember how exciting it was to open the door to our room and see what wonders awaited me. What would the picture over the bed depict? What was the layout of the bathroom? Did the bed feature a “Magic Fingers” machine? (Once, I got to actually use the Magic Fingers, and was sorely disappointed. The thought of Magic Fingers far surpassed the reality).

The best motels had swimming pools, and, as you can see from the photo, this one was air conditioned — by no means a sure thing back in the 1970s!

I’m betting we were in Bardstown to visit the Old Kentucky Home made famous by composer Stephen Foster. Hey, I dressed for the occasion! I remember that dress and I loved it.

Do you remember staying in motels in your youth? Or did you call them hotels?

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Did you know that composer Richard Wagner was born May 22, 1813? Yep — two hundred years ago later this month.

Richard WagnerAs you know if you’ve read my book about Mad King Ludwig II, Wagner was probably the biggest influence on King Ludwig II. As such, I’m interested in Wagner as well. He certainly was a fascinating character in his own right. And, as you might expect, Germany is celebrating during this bicentennial of his birth.

Wagner Wahnfried 200

A major component of the birthday celebration is an extensive renovation of Wahnfried, the home Richard and wife Cosima Wagner built at Bayreuth, Germany — the site of their famous opera house. “Wahnfried” means freedom from delusion, and it was here that the Wagners finally found as much peace as they’d experience during their lifetimes (much of Wagner’s earlier life had been spending traipsing around Europe, fleeing creditors). The house was originally opened to the public in 1976, so it could use a bit of a facelift by now. The Richard Wagner Museum housed there will also be expanded.

Wagner is buried in the Wahnfried gardens.  Wahnfried is where he wrote Gotterdammerung, the final opera of the popular 4-opera “Ring Series.”

Wahnfried Wagner Ludwig II

Wahnfried. See the bust of King Ludwig II in front?

Thanks to Campus Bellhops for sponsoring this post. All opinions my own.

Moving to college isn’t for the faint of heart. I remember when I moved in to good ol’ IU. I loaded the family car down with my clothes, little fridge, books, doodads for the walls, and more. Then there were all those trips up and down the steps (to be honest, we probably used the elevators — particularly that year I was on the 13th floor!).

Now, I have a daughter halfway through high school. I’ve begun to think about college moving again. And like many things these days, I have a feeling that today’s college students probably bring even more loot to school than kids of my era did. Moving it is a huge task!

Enter Campus Bellhops. They’re a student-run company operating on over 50 US college campuses to help students move in and out of dorms, apartments, and houses. They work at my alma mater — how about yours?

Some fun facts about college move-ins today:

  • Common heavy objects that today’s kids move to college include TVs, microwaves, dishes, mini fridges, and storage bins
  • The majority of college students pack 11-15 boxes for their move to school
  • 40% of moms polled said that carrying heavy items up and down stairs was the most unpleasant part of moving to college

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Campus Bellhops can help avoid the heavy lifting of moves. Happily, their standard cost of moving into a dorm is under $100. All the bellhops/movers are college students themselves, and you’ll receive emailed bios of your movers prior to the move to ensure you’re comfortable with them. The company was started by two entrepreneurs from Auburn University who’d seen first-hand the need for such a service.

So this spring, when your student moves home from college — or next fall, when he/she moves back — treat yourself to letting someone else do the heavy lifting. Let yourself enjoy the day with your child. That’s worth $100, for sure!

Save more: sign up at Campus Bellhops and schedule a move. When you use affiliate code GirlsinWhiteDresses, you’ll save 10% (and I’ll get $5. Thanks!).

What hints have you found to make moving to or from college easier? What’s been the hardest part for you?

More ideas that work for others at We Are That Family‘s.

 

 

One of my daughter loves sock monkeys. So when I spied this in a magazine, I knew she would have to have one:

sock monkey popperWhat is it, you ask? Why, it’s a sock monkey popper. And what does a sock monkey popper do? You put a ball into its mouth, squeeze its tummy, and — pop! — the ball shoots out, several feet.

It’s simple, it’s cute, and kids find it hilarious. Trust me on this. We had six kids at the house Saturday, and sock monkey poppers were a hit.

HogWild, which was kind enough to send me sock monkey poppers to review, carries a wide variety of these fun toys. They were voted 2012 Family Fun Toy of the Year, by the way. You can choose from bear poppers, penguin poppers, dino poppers, pig poppers, cow poppers, dog poppers, shark poppers, bunny poppers, moose poppers, and an eye popper (go on, you know you’re curious). Actually, there are even more. But that’s enough to give you an idea of the selection.

sock monkey poppers

These toys would be fun birthday party gift for any child 4 and older. They also make hilarious gag gifts for teens and adults.

Has your child ever played with popper toys? What varieties “live” at your house?

Menu Plan Monday

menuplanmondayMenu Plan Monday has arrived again, after a very busy weekend. We had a fun Saturday celebrating all three girls’ birthdays with relatives who came to visit. One daughter’s actual birthday was on Saturday, and the other two celebrate theirs in the next two weeks.

My sister made a fun polka dot cake at daughter #2′s request:

polka dot cake

I think it was a bit of a pain to make, but if you’ve got the time and the motivation (and cake ball pans), look it up on Google or Pinterest and give it a try :)

Thankfully, daughter #3 requested a simpler chocolate cake with strawberries. It was yummy, too!

chocolate cake with strawberriesDaughter #1 will have her cake at a later gathering of friends.

So, on to this week’s dinners:

Monday:  Southwest Turkey Meatloaf — daughter #3′s birthday dinner request. It’s good!

Tuesday: Calico Beans — my husband is always requesting a “bean night.”

Wednesday: Chicken Pot Pie — I would eat this every week :)

Thursday: Leftover Buffet

Friday: Oven Roasted Chicken and Veggies — easy and smells/tastes great!

Cut up a couple of chicken breasts, a couple of carrots, a couple of potatoes – put in a roasting pan, then top with 1/3 c. olive oil and a packet (actually I use 1/2 packet) of dry onion soup mix.  Bake 45 minutes at 450.

What are your Menu Plan Monday ideas this week? More inspiration at OrgJunkie‘s.

 

Childhood Memories FridayRemember crayons? Specifically, remember Crayola crayons? I do; they’ve been around longer than I have. As a child, I was always fascinated with the big 64-crayon box — so much for the 64 crayons as for the amazing crayon sharpener on the box! Alas, I never had one of these gargantuan boxes of crayons. But I do think I was able to use a friend’s sharpener, and as I recall — it didn’t work that well.

Crayola 64 crayon sharpener

I well remember using my Crayolas — always lamenting the way the more popular colors were the first to lose their tips and wear down, and always — always — searching for that elusive peachy “skin color.” I’m sure that “skin color” is now a non-PC term, and I’m equally sure Crayola has dealt with that by issuing a plethora of new colors. But I digress.

Crayola is celebrating its 110th birthday. They’ve sure come a long day from the earliest days …

 Crayola 110th birthday crayons

…(although I think the vintage packaging is charming).

Crayola is keeping up with the times with a celebration on — where else? — Facebook. You can join the Crayola Experience there; the “brick and mortar” Crayola crayons facility will officially open in May, in Easton, Pennsylvania. It features four floors of interactive, colorful Crayola fun. If you’ve got kids and live nearby, I bet it would be a fun vacation destination.

Any Crayola crayons memories out there? Share them in the comments!

Crayola provided me with this information, as well as a pack of crayons.

You’ve probably heard that the George W. Bush Library and Museum will be opening May 1, on the campus of Southern Methodist University in Dallas, Texas. Its dedication is today, and you’ve no doubt heard that all five living Presidents will attend. I would love to be there as well, but my invitation must have gotten lost in the mail.

George W. Bush Library

How about some fun facts about the George W. Bush Library and Museum?

  1. The Bush family’s dog, Barney, gets a prominent exhibit in the museum. Animal lovers (like me) will enjoy this — there’s a ball that the late Presidential dog has chewed on. You may remember that Barney passed away earlier this year. The family’s other Scottish Terrier, Miss Beazley, survives. She is featured in the exhibit, too.

Bush Library dogs Barney

2.  In homage to George and Laura Bush’s love of Texas, the exhibit will include a 15-acre Texas prairie. This will include Texas wildflowers, native grasses, and even some trees transplanted from the family’s Crawford TX ranch.

Bush Library prairie

3. The museum features a full-size replica of the Oval Office. This is as close to the real Oval Office as most Americans will ever get. A replica of the Resolute desk, used by President Bush, will be there as well.

George W. Bush Library Oval Office replica

4. You’ll find a container of chads. Remember the famous “hanging chads” that were so controversial during the contentious 2000 election results?

hanging chads

5.  The bullhorn that George W. Bush used to address rescue workers in New York City after 9/11 will be displayed as well.

George W. Bush bullhorn 9/11

Twisted steel beams from the World Trade Center are on display too. Who can forget that awful day?

9 11 steel beams

Once while visiting my aunt in Grand Rapids, Michigan, I was able to visit Gerald Ford’s Presidential Museum. It was fascinating, and if any of you live close enough to visit the George W. Bush Library and Museum, I urge you to. Then leave a comment on what you most enjoyed.

I miss the leadership of George and Laura Bush, and wish them well in this new venture. May God bless America!

Spring is here, and that means Graduation parties and Graduation open houses. Lots of them, if you have a teen. What are some graduation gift ideas that are fun and creative without breaking the bank? Here’s an inexpensive graduation gift idea that I love: I Need Cookies.

I Need Cookies postcard graduation gift idea

First, make a postcard saying “I Need Cookies” (or let your kids do this!). Stamp it and address it to yourself. Give this to the grad, along with a note letting him/her know that she can mail it to you (adding her address) sometime during the school year when she’s tired of dorm food and craving some home-baked cookies.

graduation gift idea cookies

Hopefully, several months later you’ll receive the postcard in the mail, and then you can get busy baking and packing.

I did this as a gift for our neighbor, who graduated last year. I added it to a fun necklace I found on Etsy, and she really enjoyed it. It’s a unique graduation gift, doesn’t cost a lot, and it’s something the grad can enjoy later, after all the graduation excitement has worn off.

Do you have inexpensive graduation gift ideas? I’d love to hear about them in the comments!

More ideas that work for others at we are that family‘s.